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Premarital Resources

I am excited for your wedding! Clicking on a topic will reveal all the resources you need for that module. I look forward to working with you as we prepare for your special day!

- Kurt

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Finances

Listen to "The Secrets of Contentment" sermon - MP3

Answer the following questions - PDF

1. What are Paul’s 4 Secrets of Contentment?

2. What does it mean to trust in God’s providence?

3. Why should we be satisfied with a little?

4. What does it mean to look past our circumstances?

5. What is ‘spiritual undergirding’ in life?

Rock’in The Roles

Listen to the "Rock'in the Rolest" sermon - MP3

Answer the following questions - PDF

1. Where does the pattern for a husband and wife’s relationship come from?

2. Are they arbitrary or reversible? Why or why not?

3. What is the key piece of a husband’s role in marriage?

4. Whose job is it to set the love temperature in the home?

5. What was Christ’s goal for his church?

6. What should a husband’s goal be for his wife?

7. What does a wife do with the love she receives from her husband?

8. What does it mean for a wife to submit to her husband?

9. What is every man looking for in a wife?

Ceremony

Review and revise the sample wedding ceremony - PDF

Sample stage layouts CrossWinds Spirit Lake Campus - PDF

Sample Wedding Bulletin - PDF

Sample Simple Wedding Bulletin - PDF

Sample Wedding Video - YouTube

Conflict Resolution

Conflict Resolution Work Sheet - PDF

What do these verses teach about resolving conflict in marriage?

1. A patient man has great understanding but a quick-tempered man displays folly. Proverbs 14:29

2. A gentle answer turns away wrath but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1
The Heart of the righteous weighs its answer but the mouth of the wicked gushes evil. Proverbs 15:28

3. Better a patient man than a warrior, a man who controls his temper than one who takes a city. Proverbs 16:32

4. A man’s wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense. Proverbs 19:11

5. A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control. Proverbs 29:11

6. You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy’. But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you. Matthew 5:43-44

7. Do not be overcome by evil; but overcome evil with good. Romans 12:1
In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry. Ephesians 4:26

8. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29

9. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:32

Sexual Responsibilities

Listen to the "Sexual Responsibilities" sermon - MP3

Answer the following questions - PDF

1. What are the 3 basic rules about sexuality in a marriage?

2. What 3 things happen when you become sexually intimate with someone?

3. How is sex like duct tape?

4. How many years does it take the average couple to learn enough about each other to reach peak sexual satisfaction?

5. Does the Bible tell you that you have a responsibility to sexually satisfy your spouse?

6. How often should you sexually satisfy your spouse?

7. Do you have a responsibility with your body for your spouse? What is it?

8. Do you have a responsibility with your appearance for your spouse? What is it?

9. What is the only legitimate reason you can deprive your spouse sexually?

10. What does Satan do when you are sexually depriving your marriage partner?

Does The Birth Control Pill Cause Abortions by Randy Alcorn

Solomon on Sex

The Following are links to all Solomon on Sex Resources.

1. God, Sex and Culture

2. Song of Solomon 1:1-8 - Give Me A Kiss

3. Song of Solomon 1:8-17 - Kill 'Em With Compliments

4. Song of Solomon 1:16-2:7 - Rekindle Your Romance

5. Song of Solomon 2:8-15 - Dating and Relating

6. Song of Solomon 3:1-5 - Avoiding Marital Disaster

7. Song of Solomon 3:6-11 - Why Have A Wedding?

8. Song of Solomon 4:1-5:1 - Good Sex God's Way

9. Song of Solomon 5:2-8 - Sin in the Bedroom

10. Song of Solomon 5:9-6:9 - Recovering From A Marital Wipeout

11. Song of Solomon 6:10-7:10 - The One Thing I Can Change Is Me

12. Song of Solomon 7:11-8:4 - Marital Sabbath

13. Song of Solomon 8:5-14 - Love That Never Dies

In 2012, I taught through the Song of Solomon. As part of that series, I asked the congregation to submit their questions on sex, love, and marriage. This is a link to a compilation of answers.

Q&A on Sex, Love, Dating, and Marriage

Sex Before The Wedding Night

Sex Before the Wedding Night is an intimate discussion on marriage and sexual intimacy by Dr. Ed Wheat. He is the author of Intended for Pleasure and a nationally recognized expert in the field of marriage, communication, and sexual intimacy.

I recommend listening to Part 1 at least two months before the wedding.

Sex Before the Wedding Night - Part 1 - MP3

I recommend listening to Part 2 one week before the wedding.

Sex Before the Wedding Night - Part 2 - MP3

Avoiding An Affair

One in every four of us knows someone who left their offline relationship for someone they met online. Allowing yourself to lust after someone of the opposite sex is a guarantee of marital trouble. Learn how to avoid this marital pitfall.

- The Trial of Lust

Pornography

Porn Again Christian by Mark Driscoll — PDF

Fidelity — Lust and Pornography by Douglas Wilson — PDFDiscussion Questions

Fidelity — Fornication by Douglas Wilson — PDFDiscussion Questions

Fidelity — Adultery by Douglas Wilson — PDF

Fidelity — Divorce by Douglas Wilson — PDF Discussion Questions

Fidelity — Masturbation by Douglas Wilson — PDFDiscussion Questions

General Resources

1. Ephesians 5:25-33 - What Does It Take for a Man to be a Great Husband? — Discussion Questions

2. Ephesians 5:21-24 - What Does It Take for a Woman to be a Great Wife? — Discussion Questions

3. 1 Peter 3:1-6 - Ancient Beauty Secrets for the Modern Woman — Discussion Questions

4. 1 Peter 3:7 - Men and Marriage — Discussion Questions

5. Colossians 3:18-19 - How Does Jesus Change My Marriage? — Discussion Questions

6. Feminine Appeal Chapters 1 to 4 — Discussion Questions

7. Feminine Appeal Chapters 5 to 9 — Discussion Questions

8. Sex, Romance, and the Glory of God — Discussion Questions

9. Command 7 - Do Not Commit Adultery —

The Mitch Waldon Story - The Man Who Loved His Wife Only For Her Beauty.
Mitch and Courtney Waldon had been married for two months when he accidentally covered her face in flaming gasoline. Two weeks later, he divorced her, leaving her with over $2 million in medical bills, abandoning her in her moment of need.

Man Who Set His Wife On Fire


The Robert McQuilkin Story - The Man Who Faithfully Loved His Wife Until She Died.
In 1990, he resigned as President of Columbia Bible College after 22 years to become the full-time caretaker of Muriel, his wife. She was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's. She stopped recognizing him in 1993. He continued to care for her for another ten years until she died in 2003. This is an amazing example of what it means to be a godly husband.

Robert McQuilken Resignation Speech

Forgiveness

- Philemon 1-15 - Forgiveness — Discussion Questions

- Genesis 45:1-15 - Forgiveness

- How Do I Forgive When I Am Deeply Hurt?

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